Vow is a Vow until it's broken

What is a vow? A vow is a promise or agreement made by one person to another. Most people take their vows before God, make them to God, or to their fellow man. The most commonly taken vows are the marriage vows made to God from a man and woman who love each other and promise to love each other,honor,cherish,obey,forsaking all others and not letting man put together what God has joined together. You know the whole 2 becoming 1 thing.......but what about when either the man or woman breaks that vow they took before God? If a man or woman cheats,lies put other people before their spouse and break their vows should they still consider their marriage valid in God's eyes? If I were to vow never to eat meat again and I eat a cheeseburger ten years later have I not broken my vow? Is that vow therefore valid ? Should I repent and retake that vow if I don't plan on ever eating meat again, or should I just continue eating meat because one cheeseburger or nine won't make a difference because the vow was broken with the first bite. why is marriage any different oooooohhhhhhhhhh yeah that's right it's not about the vows its about the paper the state gives you. If a husband cheats on his wife and breaks his vow to her that he took before God why should the wife in turn still have to be married to this man until the papers are signed? If your wedding vows have been broken that's it in God's eyes their is no more marriage. If someone was to break a promise to you ,you can't still hold them to it !!!!! I say F%@! it why spend your life miserable with your so called spouse because you cant afford a lawyer that is going to tell you whether or not you can be free or not. God is not looking at your relationship as a marriage its a sham!!!! Either make amends start over fresh or go your own separate ways. I'm going to do me all day every day I live by God's law not mans , only god can judge me.